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Each one has a different sentiment, depending on the dynamic of your relationship. Lola Jean suggests giving your partner a play-by-play of how you're getting ready via text and letting them be part of the process. Here are four options to give your partner if you're new to talking dirty, according to Lola Jean. If it is, then things are thrown off balance. While you're under no obligation to talk dirty if you're not comfortable with it, then you can at least give directions with your hands.

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He lived out of state, so we would text each other all day long — and eventually all night, too. I mean, there's only so long you can have a long-distance romance before things start dmart It started innocently enough, with me thinking of flirty texts to send to him, and before I knew it, things were getting really hot.

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As someone who is pretty shy about dirty talk, I never phonf I was a sexter. My first foray into font-based freakiness was a bit intimidating — for, like, two minutes, and then it was on. It turns out sexting with someone is actually easy, super fun, and hot.

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We had a great time that night, txlk many nights after. I highly recommend it. There's something about the safety of being behind that screen that really allowed me to let my freak flag fly.

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And it even turned out to vety a really empowering experience that helped me get even more comfortable with my sexual side. Also, orgasms. Just sayin'.

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So, what do you do if you're texting with someone you're into and you start getting turned on? Allow me to assist you.

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Mild 1. FYI: I just got phoe of the shower. I just thought you should know, I love your body. I had a very… um….

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Nothing turns me on more than thinking about you. Do you know how sexy you are?

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If we were in the same room right now, what would you want me to do? Medium Shutterstock I can't wait to find out if you're as good IRL as when I fantasize about you. I'm so cold RN. Should I put on some clothes?

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Wish you were here in bed with me. Where would ask me to touch you, if I were there with you?

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Can't sleep. I just keep imagining all the things we could be doing to each other if you were here.

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Have you ever had a sex dream about me? What's your favorite sex position?

If you could do anything you want with me, what would you do? Spicy AF I'm texting you with one hand Thinking about you is making me so wet. What do you think about when errotic touch yourself?

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You taste so good eerotic my mouth. I'm so turned on I love to imagine you touching yourself. What are you doing? I'm sitting here imagining you, me, and another I just cant stop thinking about your [body part] in my mouth.

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I wish you were inside me, RN. I had a dream where you made me your sex slave, and it was hot AF. See, sexting is not so scary after all! If you have any better sext ideas, I'm always looking for new material. Leave 'em in the comments. Additional reporting by Elite Daily staff. This article was originally published on Oct.