Spyware companies advertise their services as "employee monitoring" or "parental control" products. In many countries, including the UK, using the spyware on a spouse without their permission is illegal, so many of the companies' hushand are littered with disclaimers advising against this.
However, some of the same websites link to articles, seemingly written by associates, recommending the software as a spy tool for "cheatings wives and husbands". In a live chat with the company whose product I was testing, I directly told them: "I want to install this on my wife's phone, will it be secret?
I'll be happy to help. All of them gave alerts for "potentially harmful software". The Crown Prosecution Service says there aren't specific laws related to the use of stalkerware but any criminal activity like this can be prosecuted by a of means including the Protection from Harassment Act Amy says more should be done to legislate against the use of these technologies.
This software causes real harm.
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What can I do? This is my way of unwinding after a long day.
Can you help? Dear Unwinding in Chat Rooms, Your online chats may be offering you a way to wind down after a long day of work, but your wife is getting wound up about your activities.
There are many ways to define "cheating. Your wife may feel that you are cheating her of your company and your conversation while you are communicating with other persons.
During this time, she is definitely an outsider and your online friends are the insiders. Assuming these chats are perfectly innocent, one way around this issue is for you to invite your wife to you in your online chats -- that is, to sit by your side while you chat.